Lessons learned

...from infertility.

Never post your 8 week ultrasound shots on facebook. At least, don't do it publicly. While I pray my friend will be fine, she's in her mid-30s or so. And has talked about trying for a long time (which may be why she's jumped the gun, imho).

I just cringed when I saw them. Not for the old reasons of envy, anger, etc., but for new, protective reasons. Like when you see your attractive friend wearing something really off at an important event. But worse.